The transition into the single life.

Have you ever been so hurt that it feels as if some is ripping your insides out? Try having that feeling everday, non-stop. Not knowing if and when it will get easier or worst... Living life with a heavy heart is one of the hardest things you can face in your life. I hate it when people are all like, "think of what you want" and the infamous, "you're better off without him anyways". A bad break up can feel like an alchoholic having to detox. Knowing what makes you the most happy in life won't be there anymore, knowing it may never be the same and they will forever have a piece of your heart that you will never get back.

I happen to be an expert in this department. I have dealt with it and am still dealing with it to this day. But you have to fall on your face a few times before you can finally get it right. Its been said that once YOU are ready to move on from your ex it takes about 60 days, that's about two months of absolutely no contact, no looking at old photos and e-mail. And ABSOLUTELY no thoughts of "what if's" and dwell on what is no longer there. I know it is really really really hard but if you ever want to be happy and find yourself; you'll do yourself a favor and atleast try to get over it.

I'm not saying that after two months of no contact everything will be back to normally and that you will be thinking clearly and be completely over him. But atleast it's a giant step towards moving forward, of find who you really are. This time is for you. Go out with the girls, flirt alittle don't be afraid to have fun. Who's going to judge you? Your ex? Hey, who ended it? Come on now live it up! Take chances, do what you love and remember everything happens for a reason and do not have regrets.

You are beautiful and there are plenty of fish out in the sea you just have to learn to tread water before you can swim. It's a hard transition going from relationshipville to Sexy Single World but in the long run, you'll learn to enjoy it. Right now I am trying so hard to realize I am great just as I am and just because he doesn't think so doesn't and shouldn't mean a thing.

"The moral of the story here is that you need to decide if your ready to start a new chapter in your life."